Adaptation of a child in kindergarten: a few tips
With the adaptation of the child in a kindergarten problem faced by virtually all parents. How to make the process of adjusting to kindergarten less painful.
When parents get the kid in kindergarten - that they are very happy. However, they often do not even suggest that the device in a kindergarten in their life begins a new period of rather complicated. adaptation of the child difficulties in kindergarten are familiar to many. Let's try to figure out how to make this period the least painful for the child and for the parents.
Here are some tips.
1. Moral training. It is needed and the child and the parents. Try to create a positive image of the kindergarten the child. Tell him about the upcoming changes in his life, in kindergarten daily routine, that is waiting for him and what he will do. Do not deceive a child or embellish reality, tell him that his mother would go, but be sure to come back for him.
2. Preliminary acquaintance. Before you can withdraw and leave the child in the group, introduce him to the territory of the kindergarten and playground at it, take a look at a group when there are no children, meet with the teacher. Try to create a positive image of the kindergarten.
3. Positive image. In his conversations always mention kindergarten only with a good hand, even when discussing kindergarten together, and the child is simply playing somewhere nearby.
4. Timing. It is better if the period of habituation, you will drive the child to the kindergarten sutra. All go to work - the father, mother and child.
5. Ritual. Create some pleasant morning ritual for the child and collect spillage before exiting. You can set such traditions as the morning watching a cartoon or reading his short stories, selection and eating of candy or other goodies, you can simply give sutra chewable vitamins. You can hang a bird feeder in the yard and in the morning on their way to feed your garden birds, if the child is taken to the kindergarten by car - let him unlock by pressing the alarm key chain, etc.
6. My favorite toy. Allow your child to take to kindergarten favorite toy. This will help your child to create an atmosphere that is at least partly to remind his house. A tutor will be something to talk about with your baby, because he was so proud of his teddy bear or shabby dinosaur!
7. Power. For many children, food in kindergartens it is very important and interesting. If your child likes to eat, try, even in a period of adjustment to get some meal. It will be for the child one of the positive aspects related to the stay in the kindergarten.
8. Sleep. Do not try to hurry to leave the child to sleep during the day. For him, it's pretty hard. Since you have decided to take this step - talk to the teacher about what he was allowed to sleep with a toy brought from home.
9. Morning tantrums. Most children, even already accustomed to kindergarten, starting to cry if sutra found in the locker room with the "revami". Try to remember what time the children come to cry in the morning prior to entry into the group, and avoid encounters with them.
10. Emphasize the positive aspects. Always remember kindergarten only the good side: interesting new toys, delicious food, games and lessons with a tutor, etc.
11. Relax yourself. Mom and Dad have to himself to calm down and relax, do not worry too much. Often, adaptation to the kindergarten is given more difficult if you are not willing to part with the child. If you decide to send their children to kindergarten - Be strong. In the period of adaptation invent itself important things that you will perform at a time until the child is in the garden.
12. Come to work. If you know what you after you have brought a child in kindergarten, need to quickly escape to work - it will be easier to part with him, and the child will feel differently simply can not be.
13. Be sure to tell your child that you will come. For you, it is clear by itself, but the child may be afraid that it will not be taken away.
14. Be prepared for the fact that after an illness or a break to visit the child will again be capricious and cry during separation from you.
And most importantly - pay attention to your child and show maximum patience. This is a new stage of life, you understand and completely incomprehensible to the child. All that he needs - is your love and understanding.