Aggressiveness in children
Aggression is a form of self-defense, which is the instinct for survival in this world. Initially, the aggression inherent in every human being, but in the process of growth, education, a person learns to transform aggression in the most appropriate ways of behavior in society. In order not to have difficulties in communication, the person needs to learn to control his aggression. Do not suppress! A controlled. Man has
Aggression is a form of self-defense, which is the instinct for survival in this world. Initially, the aggression inherent in every human being, but in the process of growth, education, a person learns to transform aggression in the most appropriate ways of behavior in society. In order not to have difficulties in communication, the person needs to learn to control his aggression. Do not suppress! A controlled. Man has the right to defend and protect their interests in any socially acceptable manner without prejudice to the rights and interests of others and not harming anyone. This is the task of parents - to teach your baby to control his aggression and use to respond to those methods that are acceptable in a civilized society. What are the causes of children aggressiveness? 1. The fear of the world around him, the child does not trust and worry about their safety; 2. The child is faced with the prohibition, with dissatisfaction of their needs, and do not match the desired potential; 3. limitation of the freedom of the child; using aggression child asserts itself, it tries to gain independence, independence, defend their rights and territory; 4. The child does not feel the love and support of loved ones; 5. trouble in the family. His protest child expresses aggression. The aggressiveness of the child - a sign of internal emotional stress, a clot of negative experiences, one of inadequate ways of psychological protection. Aggression for the child - the only way to get rid of the psychological and emotional distress, inner anxiety. What parents can do to prevent the aggression of the child? Show your love for your child. Almost all parents love their children unconditional love, but not all, by their very nature, education, or personal beliefs, show it to your child. As often as possible tell your child that you love him. After all, it manifests itself at times aggressive - is the cry of the soul of your lack of love for him. If you are not happy with any act of the child, explain to him that you are unhappy with it an act (and how, and why), and not the child. In - Second, the children learn social behavior by watching you. If you want your baby has learned to control his behavior, then you yourself should be able to behave appropriately in any situation. Remember, for you always watching your child and all copies! Suppression of aggression is very harmful to human health. Therefore, the child should be taught not to suppress the feelings that arose in a fit of aggression and transform. What? It can be word (you made me angry, I was hurt, angry, frustrated, and so on. D.) May be in the action. But action should not harm any surrounding or child. Aggression is a huge strength and energy. You can direct this energy to fully peaceful purposes. Adults may be advisable to send this energy to work or household chores and child? Well, the first - it is a sport. The second is active games. The third - a pillow. The pillow can be beaten, kicked, in general, to give vent to the outbreak of the aggression. Fourth - art therapy. The child can draw the person who caused it in anger and break the pattern. In order to prevent in the future negate the attacks of aggression in children, parents need to pay enough attention to the kid. Learn to respect the child in person, to reckon with its opinion, to take seriously his feelings. Let your child take responsibility for his actions and give him enough freedom. Provide child of its territory, which it will host. And what - what side of life, which you can not infringe without the consent of the child.