Confusing and misunderstood teenager who he was?
With adolescence crisis faced all. The period of maturation is accompanied by not only hormonal changes, but also a variety of psychological changes: mood swings, increased irritability, aggressiveness, sometimes antisocial. To overcome the problems of adolescence, should understand them.
At age 11 in girls and 12 - boys begins a violent alteration of an organism. It coincides with adolescence and is accompanied by various problems. This is due to the large gap between the social, intellectual and biological maturation of the individual. He is 6-10 years. Teenager keeps trying to realize ourselves as individuals and to find a balance between confidence-uncertainty, maturity, immaturity, usefulness and disability. Achieving the main goal of a teenager - the acquisition of personal autonomy - often accompanied by youthful rebellion. And the task of adults to understand the teenager and help him to become an independent person, overcome this difficult period of his life with the least difficulty. In adolescence teenager becomes unpredictable. Quick change of mood, accompanied by odd (from the point of view of an adult) actions, giperkopensatsiya, in which a teenager with obsessively trying to succeed in the region where it is most weak. With all these symptoms of an adult needs a heart to heart talk with a teenager and explain to him that after all are similar. It is necessary to understand the situation together, decide what results teenager wants to achieve and what means may lead to the goal, and what - no. By this age is the emergence adolescent idols, actions and behavior of teenagers who are trying to follow. With great attention is necessary to treat the teenage idols. Among them may be the ones who bear the antisocial ideas, preaches the cult of self-destruction and death. It is possible that a teenager should be youth fashion, without thinking in what is happening. adult task in this case does not prohibit and blame, but to understand the child and help him. From adults need great tact and participation in joint problem-solving. In extreme cases, if the child is antisocial and dangerous to others, you should refer to specialists, who will provide expert assistance.