How to cope with anger baby
Resentment, anger, anger - feelings that are the body's response to any action on the part. Adults should and can control their emotions, respecting the rules of decency and tact in relation to the person wronged them. But children - (both small and large), it is difficult to do. Therefore, to negative behavior is not the norm for a child around the time adults should re their child. fits of anger and tantrums often occur in public places, and parents hard once stricter react, so as not to attract postorennee attention to yourself and your baby.
Instruction how to deal with anger baby
If the child is very small (1 to 3 years), it is very difficult to calm him down. He's still many do not understand, that is, does not know how to behave properly, and do as he tells his "I". Therefore, to correct the behavior of the kid in this situation, first of all it is necessary to distract him with something else: to offer him to see what he was really like, give a favorite toy, in extreme cases, lead him to another room (change of scenery). Within a very short time the baby will focus on a different phenomenon and completely forget about the offense. Anger will subside, and it will become calm again. And then parents should talk to the kid about what to do so it is not necessary to explain that the child is not good and there will be more angry at the person who offended him. You can not only blame on him the wrath of the object to Kinder did not remember the reaction of a person or animal, offended him.
The child reached the age of three to six years, then, the main remedy is the belief conversations, in any case, not for the benefit of the child. At this age, adults are still dominated by the authority for them, so the words mean a lot. Of course, if you became hysterical and aggression, it is first necessary to calm the child, convince him that he is wrong. Be sure to listen to him. Arrange the whole situation around: "badly" and "OK". Do not beat him, and did not put in the corner, it will not lead to solving the problem. If the situation persists, then the selected words were not convincing. The child should be put in the role of the offender, so he tried his hand at other roles, listen to how he would have acted. and the next time he is sure to think about whether it is necessary to repeat the tantrums.
If the child has "not a child" (From seven to sixteen years), there should be very careful. Physiological characteristics of the nature of a teenager can lead to unexpected turns. Temper tantrums should cease, if the person to give the time (you can announce this: "Calm down, wash, have a drink of water, then we'll talk"), Then be sure to listen without interrupting, without inserting any replica against him. Once opened, the problems do not need to preach to his life, and should give the teenager to talk over the situation, gently pushing him to do so. Suddenly he realizes that the coin has two sides. If this does not help, then it helps eternally present time, it is everyone and everything in its place. Just for teens (if he is capable of negative actions) should be followed by unnoticed, lest he not committed follies.