How to raise a teenager
When a child becomes a teenager, there comes a difficult period for him and for his parents. The son or daughter no longer obey, does not want to help around the house, rude and snarls in response to the treatment of adults. Out of the situation will help to find knowledge about the peculiarities of teenage psychology.
Instruction how to educate teen
In adolescence, a child is reviewing all aspects of their lives. Criticized grafted his parents rules and norms of behavior stereotypes. In the first place there is the desire for independence and self-affirmation. Increasingly important relationships with friends. It peers become the object of imitation. Understand that all manifestations of rudeness, obstinacy and stubbornness - it attempts to resist the dictates of the parent, the pressure. Teenager becomes aware of himself as a person. It arises a need for more rights and freedom than in childhood. Not knowing how to get what you want, baby breaks and rude from impotence. Teenagers are going through because of their physical development and appearance. And this behavior is perfectly normal for puberty.
Try to talk with your teen as an adult - is the only way to be heard. Try to talk openly with their son or daughter ask, how to change your communication better. More interested in the relationship of a teenager with friends. Be more democratic and remove total control. If a child wants to do something that is not immoral, prohibited or too expensive, discard bans.
Respect his choice, do not read teen notations about how to dress. Do not reproach, and talk about your feelings about what is happening. Listening to the statements of his child, let him have his own opinion, to disagree with you. Try to explain your point of view, nothing is imposing a teenager. It is not easy, but in this way you will be able to establish between you an atmosphere of mutual respect.
A characteristic feature of adolescence - high emotional tension and anxiety. Often the child is trying to hurt the most painful place, accuses, calls bad parents. Do not take the call, in order to prevent flare up the fight. Get out into the other room, cool off, but do not participate in such a dispute. Try to be persistent and consistent. Empty threats and severe penalties will have a tough resistance and opposition from your grown-up child.