What if a child is naughty
Parents can not get enough, if a child grows docile and calm. They get used to it and do not even suspect that it will not always. Something in the behavior of the baby can change suddenly. He does not give any persuasion, often starts to cry and capricious.
The kid his whole appearance shows that waiting for understanding from adults. The changes in his behavior sometimes lead them into confusion and cause a desire to stop a disgrace and whims immediately. You have to understand that this behavior is not yet settled, the child is still looking for the mechanism of action for you. If he understands that to achieve the desired, you can cry, whims, twitching of her hair, screaming, your communication will be with him this time. If a child is to make it clear that such excesses would not lead to the goal, it will cease to be capricious, cry, cry. In some cases, you learn not to pay attention to him. Sometimes it will be the best solution. The child will stop crying and capricious, if there will be people trying to calm him down. Sympathetic viewers only enhance the weeping and the vagaries malysha.No try not to overdo it. If you react too strongly, the child your reaction to bad behavior remember, misinterprets the situation and accept it as a reward for his deed. He may again be tempted to repeat those actions that cause you such rapid negodovanie.Vy must be consistent in its actions. Once banning something the child, continue to insist on it, and explain that this can not be done. He'll see your consistency, and it will be easier to adopt rules of conduct. But if today you forbid jump in a puddle, and tomorrow it is allowed, then the child can be confusing, and it is already difficult to convince that lie in a pool of bad. In a similar behavior of the child is necessary to respond quickly. If he is doing something unauthorized, once strictly and immediately say "No". If this action is repeated again, to decline again and try to steal a baby to another mesto.Za good behavior, be sure to praise the child. If his attention is constantly dwell on negative actions, then he can repeat them on purpose in order to get your attention. Try to shape the behavior of the baby a positive attitude. By creating a positive atmosphere at home, you will reduce his desire to always be in opposition. Reduce the number of actions that are prohibited for the baby. Take those things that he can not take; on the control panel of various equipment, located in the building, use the plastic plugs; close the doors of rooms and lockers, in which the child should not be exposed, for special ustroystva.V moment of an attack, try to shift attention the child to some other activity. Provide both at home and on the street more activity. If you left it at home alone, turn him children's stories and songs. But no TV, which will cause overstimulation. It is fascinating, but the constant change of the episodes on the screen can be a serious stimulus for the child's mind.