What to do if your child does not want to study
The child is happy in the first class, being able to read and write, he likes to do. What happens then, why it is extinguished interest in the acquisition of knowledge? Indignant scribbles in notebooks and unfulfilled homework, many parents complain about the reluctance of children to learn.
The main thing - do not let the process take its course. No matter what grade your child goes - the first or the outlet, try to understand the reasons for his lack of interest in learning. Among them may be fatigue, which is especially evident in the third quarter, a lack of understanding of the material, boredom, teenage love, relationship problems with peers or teachers. Remember that bad marks - this is not a reason to blame the child, and a signal to the parents that he needed help: deal with the material, think together, supporting the course of solving the problem, make a bad evaluation negative erased as soon as possible. For the baby plays an important role schedule. When a child goes to school, try to maintain a certain rhythm of life, to which he was accustomed. To mischievous kid became a diligent student, a parent needs time and patience. Informative activity of younger student has a wavy character. Periods of persistent classes alternate with periods of "unwillingness" to learn. First graders better able to absorb knowledge through rhythmic games, poems. To be engaged in one activity for longer than half an hour, it is difficult for them. Therefore, homework, do ten-minute rest breaks. Agree with your child about the time when he learns, and when watching cartoons, going for walks or playing at home. Do not leave the baby alone with the lessons, even just your presence will help him cope with the work of their own. When you need something to remember, learn the rules, invent poems, use the materials at hand, ask questions. See with educational programs about science, nature, look for information on the Internet. Sport should not be boring for a child in primary school, but he must firmly know: first lessons, then entertainment. Studying in middle and senior management coincides with a certain period the child gets older. To call for the discipline of a teenager - is not easy. He refuses from the values of parents feel adult. Hard imposing its own methods, you will meet a resistance. Allow him to try different options for homework, preparation for lessons, but ask for the result. Most praise it, be encouraged to self-sufficiency. Attention to the problems and experiences of a teenager, an ongoing dialogue between you - the important components of your communication in this period. Be an example for the younger son or daughter avoid their presence in the negative statements about the education system, the uselessness of learning, etc. The contradictions between words and deeds of adult children of this age grasp very quickly.