Why does a child is cheating
Where is the line between fiction and deception? What is the cause of children's lie? Perhaps that child wants to look better than it is. Or it is pushing this fear. Maybe your child just to imitate adults.
Child 4-5 years old comes from kindergarten home and tells the incredible story that at lunch they were fed only with candy. He is very serious and is offended if you do not believe him. He believes that telling the truth. It's not cheating, but fantasy that kid takes for reality. And no matter how often it may be telling implausible stories, adult immediately distinguish truth from fiction. And do not blame the little dreamer suddenly he grow up a great skazochnik.V school years lies in children takes a very different quality. At this age, do not confuse fiction and reality. Flam to achieve something. Dodger understands that his offense is required to be punished, and attempts to cheat in order to protect themselves, "I did not break the window," "I do not know who did it." Or even worse, trying to put the blame on the other: "The book broke Peter." What will happen with Peter, and why he should be responsible for someone else's wrongdoing, liars do not care. The child communicates with many other children and tricks to improve their social status. He comes up and gives the reality of what he thinks will elevate him above the others: "I will soon buy a new bike," "I have a computer better than yours," "My dad is the richest." Children cheating to evade undesirable work: "I have to do my homework - I will not go for bread," "I can not go to school - I have a headache" .Konechno, fraud will be revealed sooner or later. And then the parents should show as much tact. Do not scold the child for lying, try to be very careful to find out why he went to the hype. Explain why it is wrong. And think about it, is not it too harshly you punish the child why he is afraid of you? Upon reaching adolescence, children begin to lie still and to move away from parental care. Excessive control, violation of personal space boundaries are forced to resort to deception teenager. It is very dangerous. A child can get into trouble, start to take drugs, commit a crime. Parents need to realize that the child has grown and needs a certain degree of freedom. This will help keep the trust between you and the child, he would not lie to you, and you can control situatsiyu.I important thing to remember: the child copies the behavior of the parents. If your family good relationship of trust, my son would just lie to "the good." For example, never say that he does not like a gift, a smile and a thank you.