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Why does a child is lying

When parents first notice that their child is lying, they often panic and do not know how to deal with children's lies. Psychologists advise first of all to deal with the causes of this phenomenon.

Why does a child is lying

Parents need to know what lies preschoolers does not pursue selfish goals. Lies small child can be a result of active work of imagination, or remedy of the little man against a possible sentence or grievances from vzroslyh.Nikogda should not punish or ridicule the child for a rich imagination, which can be expressed in the most fantastic stories. If a child returning from kindergarten, says that today's outing he built the spacecraft or seen in the bushes live crocodile, do not rush to accuse him of lying. On the contrary, ask him in detail about these amazing incidents, show a friendly interes.Odnako can not blindly poke all children's fiction. Do not encourage the fantasies that develop illusory, unrealistic representation of the child about himself and his place in the world. If the child says: "I - Superman. Killing baddies ", it is desirable to correct words:." Would you like to be Superman, and help people "Sometimes preschoolers lie, wanting to seem more attractive in the eyes of others. From harmless fantasies such lies distinguished by a high degree of credibility. This behavior is a wake-up call, talking about what your child or do not have enough attention, or he thinks he can not be of interest to others in itself the cause of child sebe.Chastoy deception is the desire to hide from the adult his offense. As a rule, this desire is dictated by the fear of punishment. In this case, do not put pressure on the child and force him to confess to the crime. This pressure will only lead to the fact that the child will invent new false excuses. Leave it to yourself to admit your wrongdoing, and after listening to the recognition, be sure to praise the baby - in fact admit their mistakes is very difficult even for an adult.