Why the child aggressive
Children do not always play with each other in peace and quiet. They often quarrel among themselves, "name-calling", might break out and fight. But this - the signs of the phenomenon as a natural children's aggression. The situation is different when a child is aggressive beyond measure when he did not get along with any of their peers, and fights occur almost daily. Then you need to find out where the roots of aggression.
Children's aggression represents a manifestation of anger, emotion, fury, anger. To cope with the child's aggression, you need to understand why, in the soul of a child having these feelings. Most often, the roots are hidden in the behavior of adults. This may be because: • The indifference of parents to a child or permanent negative assessment of his actions; • strict measures punishment of children constantly employed in the family for his misdeeds, and the same results can cause both physical and psychological punishment; • Promotion of aggressive behavior of the child's parents in relation to people and zhivotnym.V aggression against child learn to recognize its external signs. In an angry toddler clenched fists, his face takes a fierce expression, whole body tenses up. If you see these signs in your child, try to bring it to the negative emotions in a peaceful course. Suggest, for example, to cry out in an empty room, all claims against the offender; allow him to beat the subject of upholstered furniture or a pillow; write on a piece of paper all the insulting words that he wants to say, and then break the sheet. A young child can be offered to draw his wrath, so that he remained in bumage.Detyam prone to aggression, it is necessary to create conditions requiring higher motor activity: written in the sports section, or create a sports area home. Physical activity contributes to the release of adrenaline, but the release of this no one will vreda.Ustraivayte with a child role-playing games: boys enthusiastically playing "war", proving his strength and courage to an imaginary enemy (in this case - you). Periodically, you need to switch roles so that the child had the opportunity, having stayed in the role of victim, assess how unpleasant aggression. The main thing - do not be indifferent to the life of their child, because it is often children's aggression - a way to attract attention. Be interested in children's stories, do not rush to blame and punish their child for the slightest offense. On the contrary: for any praise, even small advances in any field. Severe punishment is still nobody any good; and if the child does not become aggressive, in his heart endeared fear. And for the harmonious development of the individual it is very important to understand, compassion and helpfulness on the part of parents. The basic method of dealing with aggression - personal example. If the family prevails tough, authoritarian attitudes, to overcome the children's aggression is almost impossible.