How to stay with a man friends
At some point you realize that the relationship ended. There is a need for a serious and long conversation, full of despair, sadness and feelings. And then the phrase sounds naibanalneyshaya "Let's be friends". Is it possible?
Instruction how to be friends with a man
All in one voice insists that the friendship between a man and a woman has not been and can not be. Do not be so categorical. It is necessary to consider the situation from different angles. Friendship between man and woman is possible, but it will be more sensual and more restrained at the same time than the same-sex friendship. There is no dispute, as a rule, these relations are based on sexual attraction to one side or the other, when one of the two do not share the romantic aspirations of the other.
Subconsciously, most men regard "Let's be friends" as a game of cat and mouse. Some of these games do not accept and the pluck of any kind of relationship with a woman. For others, the beloved is very expensive, so they become friends for a while in the hope of regaining it in his strong arms of men. Most often, both sides are not ready to completely break old relationships and therefore become friends. Both know hobbies, preferences, habits, tastes, habits, and interests of each other. If you are willing to endure such painful for both sexes friendship, you should remember the following rules: - firstly, there is no "friendly" sex. He stir old feelings, and it is a priori wrong to sleep with a friend. The same goes for all the hugs, kisses and gentle touches; - Secondly, the less will be the meeting, the better for you. No need to avoid her ex, but the number of random encounters should be minimized; - Thirdly, it is not necessary to share with him the inner experiences. Is not interested in his personal life and do not show off their own, because it can bring heartache to him and to you; - Fourth, do not make any illusions about the restoration of some old romance. To exist in tandem, where one loves and the other friends, humiliating. If you want to "friend" drag in bed - it's not friendship, because friends do not engage in sex. It is important to remember that the friendship - is primarily a spiritual affinity. When you negotiate with someone new product film industry, or just read a book, you do not think what he had sex.
Alas, the relationship after breaking up can hardly be called friendship, maximum - just friendly. Stay friends, greeting at a meeting, smiling, to help in small ways - is the right decision. Many couples end their novels with the scandal, and tantrums. Quiet and peaceful settlement of relations - it is quite normal for adult sensible people.
Friendship between man and woman is the place to be if you believe in it. People will build their own reality.