How to take away from her husband's mistress
If your spouse became interested in another woman, and you're not going to give up and let go of it, try to analyze your family life. You have to understand that attracted him to the woman, and what is missing you. Light re-spark in your relationship, and you will be able to return a loved one in the family.
Instruction how to withdraw from her husband's mistress
If you have received information about the presence of nasty mistress from your husband, do not get depressed and even more immediately apply for a divorce. Do not give razluchnitse pleasure. It is likely this is what achieves. It is even possible, she will deliberately create a situation where you will learn about the changes. Moreover, it is impossible to arrange hysterics, scandals and explanation of the relationship in a raised voice. This is more than just alienate your husband from you, and solve the problem in this way will not work.
Think about how and whether it is worth talking about your guesses. If a man does not say that out of love and wants to leave the family, then it is either just started a meaningless affair, or has not yet made a final decision. I tell him about your guesses, you can push it to the care of another family.
It is best in this situation to work on the bugs in your relationship. Do not feel sorry and does not justify itself, because man "He goes over to the side" in that case, if it something lacking in the marital relationship.
If you have lost the passion and the relationship has become flat and boring, arrange for the wife of a romantic evening with candles, a delicious dinner, slow dancing, etc. Remember, what you do it so "hooked"That it was you he wanted to see his wife, and try to bring back the past.
Prove to him that you are better than women, which he carried away. Buy new stunning dress, make an unusual hairstyle (change the color or length of hair) and go with her friends in a cafe. But do not overdo it in the desire to make your wife jealous. Do not move the line in order not to destroy the relationship. He just needs to understand that you are a beautiful woman, and do not stay alone, that you are sexy and like other men. Men - the owners, and it certainly will look at you with different eyes and be afraid to lose.
Be tolerant. Surround it even more care and attention, often indulge your favorite dishes, be interested in the affairs at work, to express sympathy and support when needed. He must understand that no one can well understand and appreciate it as you.
Go the whole family (with children) vacation. You will be able to it for a while to escape from this vicious circle: his wife, he is a lover. He will have the opportunity once again to make sure that only your family, it can be truly happy.