What if I change?
Treason in some cases has a positive impact on the human condition and the relationship between the partners. For example, after a case of treason partner can experience more intense feelings (love, affection), to improve self-esteem, he learns to appreciate a loved one.
But do not forget that in addition to the positive aspects of betrayal hurts the partner and a feeling of betrayal. The culprit is experiencing constant remorse, it requires self-control and decision-making about how to prevent this in the future. Systematic repetition can lead to the destruction and disintegration of relations unit of society (for spouses). Psychologists do not exclude one-time and short of treason, which positively influence the development of relations. However, protracted relationship on the side without the action taken by the destructive impact on the couples. When the suspicion of the partner, or before the planned departure is necessary to mention in conversation any story (you can even fictional) girlfriend husband of treason, which led to divorce or other adverse effects. It will be the first signal for the men, and perhaps he will think about the situation and the time to protect themselves from unwanted communications. Also, a very correct way to solve the question of how to prevent infidelity, a change of appearance, a radical change of image that will give a certain charm and cause positive emotions in a partner. In this case, it will have a desire to enjoy your beauty and elegance, and the need to find another woman for sexual relations disappear. By the way, it is an excellent way to torture a preliminary sexual games to a man no strength and desire to start flirting with other women. Possible checks should not sound like a threat, but a sudden surprises to be alert (eg mother parish on important business or calling on landline phone at any time of the day). Often it calls interfere with establishing relations on the side, so do not hesitate to call and talk about their love for a man. If your fears have justification, you should not delay the situation, you need to solve it on the spot. The unexpected arrival of a cottage or travel finds a man by surprise. It is also an indicator of the reliability of your information about the change may serve as an immediate sexual intercourse, according to which the activity is possible to determine the level of male desire. Even if a man has proved insufficiently active compared to other cases, it is not necessary hysterics, especially if there is no absolute proof of his infidelity. Such hysterical behavior may alienate partners and become the cause of divorce. It is more logical to motivate the elect and constantly show that you are the best, that he made the right choice. Give your beloved feel that He wants to show care and respect his opinion. Most likely, he will respond in the same ratio.