What if love is unrequited
The ability to love - is the greatest gift that brings a great happiness and a painful frustration or severe psychological trauma for life, if the love is unrequited.
Unrequited love for psychologists estimated in their life experience, about 80% of people, both women and men. Unrequited love can take many forms and overtake a person at any age. Is it a bad thing to experience the feeling, what the consequences may lead unrequited love? Such strong emotions were the impetus for writing the set of poems and songs, beautiful literary works, stories formed the basis of many movies. If you have not so lucky, and you have met the person who does not respond to you in return, there are several ways to correct the situation. The first option - to achieve reciprocity. The most important thing is not to overdo it and not to frighten away the object of his obsession. Try to penetrate his interests, enter into its environment, be sure to show that the experience of sympathy and give him the right to choose, at least, that he thinks so. If this is not possible, you can wait. Make friends, chat, live their usual life, but remind yourself at every opportunity. Maybe something will change in your life or your chosen lady, will exchange opinions, people will understand that happiness is something that's it - next. If, however, the efforts were in vain, and the heart aches and aches at the mere mention of the object of his unrequited love, experts recommend to forget and move on, filling their lives with new interests and friends. Leading an active lifestyle, a person will be physically tired, he will not just Force sob into my pillow at night and not enough time on the bad thoughts that can lead to irreparable consequences. And most importantly - a chance to find new opportunities and genuine, mutual love, to experience all of its joys and create a full family in which the children healthy and happy to grow. Psychologists and people who have experienced unrequited love, argue that there is nothing terrible and tragic, this is only a proof that man is capable of strong feelings and worthy of happiness. Do not waste a lot of time empty of suffering - to live life to the fullest, in which for each person there is great mutual love.