What to do with unwanted relationship
Sometimes relationships that last for years, come to a standstill. But this impasse does not stop the two men. Stepping over the logical end of a relationship, they somehow keep going the same way.
The expression "the suitcase without a handle," aptly describes this relationship: and drag heavily, and pity to throw. It is a pity the lost years together, sorry effort and collaborative experiences. The severity of the presses almost physically - tortuous action to maintain the sense of sight, the difficulties of communication and intimacy. When asked why people burden themselves with unnecessary relations, will forever remain unanswered. Everyone has their own version: the fear of loneliness, habit, lack of desire to change and others. Woman, take on all the household chores and pastimes. Man in listening to the daily hysteria in the house where I want to relax. In both cases, the only way out. With unnecessary relationships is tough to do. The gap seems scary, but ultimately only bring relief and open up new opportunities. By getting rid of long-term load, do not blame yourself for something, wistfully recall the beginning of the relationship, and to think that things could get better. If we could - adjusted. Unfortunately, not all relationships are destined to end with a happy ending, and it must be clearly understood. Entry into communication with one person does not mean inability to part with him and find another. The concept of "unnecessary" relationship applies not only to the loving unions. Friendly communication can also be a burden. People appearing only in depressive states in search of "vest" for tears, exactly like escapes only at your troubles for raising self-esteem - is not a friend, and the load that prevents you from living. Friendship does not tolerate unilateral relationship requires effort, not imposed. It is clean and easy relationship, designed to delight and to facilitate your life. If not - do not be afraid to get rid of them. In any unclear situation, behave a little selfish, because one life, and it is hardly upset her at burdening the people.