How to raise a child with a disability
The birth of a baby in the family with developmental disorders is always stressful. The parents are in a difficult psychological situation: they have to experience the grief, the pain, the guilt for the fact that the child was born "so", and some fall into despair. Most often, the family is moving away from friends and often from home.
Instruction how to raise a disabled child
You should never feel sorry for the child, because he was not born like other children.
Give him my love and attention, but do not forget about other family members, too, need care and affection.
Organize your life so that no one in the family did not feel a "victim" of the fact that we have to give up their personal lives.
Do not try to protect the child from problems and responsibilities. All of the cases dealt with together with it.
Give your child the independence in decision-making and actions.
Always watch your behavior and appearance, because the child must be proud of you.
Do not be afraid to refuse him anything, if you believe that the demand is too high.
Talk with your child as often as possible. Remember, no radio, no TV, no computer can not replace him live communication with you.
Do not limit your baby to communicate with their peers.
Invite your friends to visit, do not refuse to meet with them.
Do not hesitate to resort more frequently to the advice of psychologists and educators. Find information about public preschools in your area open counseling centers, early intervention services, where you can always ask for help. Recently organize Lekoteka also designed specifically for children who do not attend educational institutions due to limited capacity.
Read more and not limited by the choice only of literature that deals specifically with your problem - interest and artistic.
Meet and communicate with families, which also has a "special" children. Adopt someone else's experience of education and transfer them to your own.
Do not harass a reproach because of the fact that your family was not born completely healthy baby. You are not to blame.
Think always about what ever your child becomes an adult, and he will have to live an independent, adult life. Cook it to her, talk to him about it.